lost dvd...

btw, who has my Saving Face dvd ah? i can't seem to find it... or did i lend it to someone? *scratches head*

that's the thing with lending or borrowing from people. not that i'm chao kuan or what, i don't really like to lend ppl things. cos it either gets lost, or not returned in one piece. and if i do lend, i expected it to be short term, cos if lent too long, time goes by, the person or me for that matter, might have clean forgotten about it. den if i suddenly miraculously remember and ask the person abt it, the usual replies are "got meh?" and "paisay, i lost it liao".

this reminds me of a certain friend i lent my FRIENDS vcd to (ironic, isn't it?). duno she too busy or what, she says she no time to watch it, duno how to operate her vcd player, duno the discs put where... alot of excuses. sigh, it got to a time where i was too paisay to ask abt it liao. den one fine day, she told me she lost it, couldnt find it anywhere. i was like uh-huh... den how? guess whats her reply? she said "i told you i lost it, there's nothing i can do abt it!!!" in a very 理直气壮 manner somemore. wtf. my fault ah? eh, you lost the item tat you borrowed from me, i suppose its natural for me to ask "den how?" rite? still have to cheek to rant back at me. wtf?

after this incident (and many others), i've become apprehensive abt lending stuff to ppl. so whoever borrows things from me, don't mind me for occasionally asking the whereabouts and for unconsciously unknowningly displaying my kanchiong behavior, lol.

that's abt me lending. i also have a fair share of stories of me borrowing. lol. that time when half blood prince was out (how many years ago was that?), i couldn't bear to part my $ for that book, bcos it was too ex. and since my brother isnt gonna get it tat fast either, i had to borrow from a friend. when the friend lent me, he said he hasn't even read it yet, and asked if i could read it asap because his younger brother wanted to read the book fast. hmm, if he was that kanchiong for his brother, den why bother to agree to lend me? anyway, so i managed to read it within 4 days and returned him the book 3 days later, ie, the book was in my possession for a week. i was very careful with the book, i also returned him in the DHL (or whatever) envelope he passed me originally. ok den last month, he smsed me out of the blue, asking if his harry potter book is with me. err. so i told him i already returned him one week after he lent me. he said "got meh? i don't remember" and after several smses to and fro, he said "ok whatever, nevermind" i was like, WHAT THE LAU?! so he didnt believe me, that i already returned it? and is he conveniently blaming me for the unknown location of the damn book? wah lau!! i distinctly remember him constantly reminding me to hurry up finish reading, so his brother can have the book. now 不见了 den come and blame me. wth?